Tuesday, March 23, 2010

At some point.....

You just think life SUCKS!! Sucks a big time...

There are problems waiting to be resolve and yet actions are not taken despite giving all suggestions & support.

Old problems still hanging around and new problems arises.. finance, living habits, childcare..career...and the list goes on.

At some point, it just makes one feeling so demoralised and feel like leaving everything behind..

At some point, it makes one wonder if you are a life partner or just a co-tenant.

At some point, it makes one wonder if the decision previously made was correct.

At some point, it makes one think if we should make a BIG decision to correct the wrong one previously made!!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Updates on Lucas Growth

As mentioned in my previous post, we were pretty concerned if Lucas is growing fast enough.

So we brought him to the Pediatrician for a check up and also to get some advice on his feeding.

The doctor did some plotthing on the growth chart found on the health booklet. The conclusion is, Lucas is indeed one small baby.

First of all, his birth weight is already below average. Next, both me & hubby are not of avergae height either. So more or less, Lucas height & weight will be much affect.

However, the doctor did mentioned that though small, Lucas is actually growing consistently, which is a good sign. She also recommend us to slowly increase his food & milk intake to compensate for the energy loss given that he is an active kid at this stage.

I am trying my best to make him grow bigger. If he's active & happy.. well I guess we should be fine :)

Here are some dishes that I made for Lucas.. you know how boring it can get with all the porridge & rice with steam fish everyday... So during weekends I make it a point to make something nice for him...

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Daddy's 33rd Birthday

Is Hubby's 33rd Birthday.. as it was just too close to CNY, I got absolutely no time to bake him a cake. So instead I bought him a small little



CARE BEAR Cake!! Wahahahaha

Why Care Bear??

Cos whenever he sees care bear.. he will says "Care Bear Shines!!!" I was so amused when he first said that.. he actually remembered the cartoon.. :)



So from there I reckon he loves Care Bear...



Other than the cake, I also bought him a wallet.. His first authentic branded one I guess :)

Initially I thought of buying him a Dupont lighter as a replacement for the one he lost (it was a gift from his 3 good poly buddies & he almost go bonkers when he lost it), but that would cost me a bomb!! So I settle for a wallet instead and it's on sale.. What a good deal! :)

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

2010 Mini Getaway #1

Hee.. looking at the title.. meaning I am planning for #2, #3 #4......... etc... haha

Back to this trip, we went to Malaysia over the last weekend to attend my cousin's wedding.
The Malaysian customs is such that the bride's family will host a dinner on their own and there will be another dinner host by the groom.
We were there to attend the one hosted by the bride.

Is a foodie trip, there's nothing to do except eat eat eat and eat!! Not a single minute was I feeling hungry.. haha..
We also visited my eldest cousin's new house. It's a big & nice bungalow!!

Let the photos do the talk.. and to the bride & groom
May you have a wonderful, everlasting & blissful marriage forever!!

Friday, January 29, 2010

Help!!!

As I mentioned in my previous post, Lucas's weight seems to take forever to increase and I am struggling very hard to pile it up.

So I decided to measure him and see where he falls under the WHO growth chart.
Length for 22 months: 81 cm = 5th percentiles!!!!!
Weight for 22 months: 10kg = 15th percentiles
Weight for Height (Length) = 25th percentiles

Oh NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is truly very very very small.
At this very moment I am really at a loss, as to me, I think he is eating normal and enough (I hope).
6.30am - 7 oz (210ml) of milk
9.30am - 1 slice of bread
10.30am - 5 oz (150ml) of milk
12 noon - 1 full bowl of porridge with meat / fish & vegetables
3.00pm - 6 oz (180ml) of milk
3.30pm - 2 pcs of kids biscuits
6.00pm - 1/2 bowl of rice with meat / fish & vegetables
7.00pm - Nibble a few mouths of Mummy's & Daddy's dinner
8.30pm - 1/4 of apple or a few pcs of biscuits or some cereal (like honey star / cornflake / coco balls)
9.30pm - 8 oz (240ml) of milk

I am considering if I should bring him to a specialist. I spoke to one of our friend, Joyce, who happens to be working in such a clinic at KKH and her boss is in this specialisation. According to her, the routine for the 1st consultation would include X-ray on hand and blood test. The fees can sum up to S$300 plus.

Upon hearing that I am rather put off, not by the fees but the blood test!! I yikes blood test and more so when it has to be done on my little one. Sigh!!!
Joyce's advice is that even if we were to go to normal PD, ultimately they will refer us back to KKH.

Being a very sweet and helpful nurse, Joyce actually asked her boss to help us plot the growth of Lucas to determine if he is growing healthily.
So right now, I am still thinking if I should go for the consultation...

In the meantime, to all my readers out there (I hope there are.. hehe), if you have any tips in this area or if you find that my feeding has some problem, please let me know via the comments box or chat box.

Thanks


PS: I nearly got to cancel my trip to Malaysia as Desmond's passport was expiring and we only realised it on Monday night. Lucky he got his new passport this morning, if not I think I will be Bao Gong over the weekend!! :)

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

1st Post for 2010

Yes I know, it took me so long to get a post out.
Sorry, pretty tied up lately, simply no time to blog and there’s nothing much to blog about anyway.
No no, not FB games but with all the spring cleaning, cookies baking experiments. There's so much to do with so little time.

We did celebrate New Year, over at Eve & WJ's place together with a few close friends.
No cake this time, had enough of it since Christmas and I am conserving my energy for Chinese New Year haha.

Lucas is doing well except for that sickening diarrhea which he had it since 2 week of December last year and it was on off kind of thing and lasted for almost a month long!!

On the first occurrence, after the anti-diarrhea medication, it did help, but came back again after 3 days. The same goes for the 2nd occurrence. I noticed that if he eats too much, he will poo alot and it became diarrhea.
We knew that no FM allow during diarrhea, it's best to take soy milk as it does not contain lactose, so better tolerance for his little stomach as compare to normal formula milk.
But GP also advice that if we don't want to use soy milk, we can actually dilute FM.
However this time round, we decided to put him on soy milk since it's been going on for quite some time. Oh boy, soy milk STINKS! Thank god, my little one still took them as usual.

We went to GP thrice, but it was still the same and he keeps giving him Lacteol Fort (Acidophilus in powder form).

Finally we brought him to PD, upon hearing the whole situation, she pointed out that we shouldn't do an immediate switch of diet once we see that Lucas's poo is back to normal.
In fact, we should switch it back slowly. Since he's on soy milk, we should slowly change it back to FM by introducing 1 feed each day and increase it as days goes by making sure the poo is consistent.
Do not give him too oily & rich food, no roots vegetables & fruit juice (as they have a higher sugar content which is currently intolerable)
After all these tips, Lucas finally recovered.

Now I am struggling to pile up his weight. He looks like a miserable tiny baby. He eats as usual even during days when he is not feeling well. Yet his weight seems to take forever to increase.
Not too sure where went wrong, Diet? Too active? Still not eating enough?

I am still sourcing help and advices and hopefully he can grow up stronger and BIGGER!!

We will be busy again for the next few weeks.
This weekend we will be travelling to Port Klang to attend my cousin's wedding. I am looking forward and getting excited because we are travelling together with extended family members as well!!!

After that we will be back to our CNY madness of cleaning, baking, cooking & SHOPPING!!!

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Goodbye 2009

Fast... Time really flies very fast and before we knew it, 2009 is coming to an end.

Little Lucas has grow from a baby to a toddler and this year alone he has got 10 new friends, 2 girls, 8 boys... and they are

Oliver, Asher, Aven, Jazael, Charlotte, Brittany, Doreitius, Raynor, Jayven and Koen
(see how productive our friends are ... hehe)

My new accomplishment for the year would be learning to cook & bake!! And yes, I am totally addicted to it that every weekend if I have the time I will definitely bake or cook or do both.
Oh ya.. I have also become a professional FB gamer.. or rather virtual farmer..wahaha :D

Daddy's accomplishment would be.......
lesser or sometimes no more cursing and swearing of the morning traffic jams.
(he can't give me one.. so this is what I think he had achieved)

2009 has been a rather smooth and peaceful year for our little family.

Neither one of us looses our job or suffers a pay cut due to economic downturn which is a big blessing.

Daddy has learnt to help a little bit more in the household chore.

Mummy has learnt to control a little bit more of her nonsensical tantrums.

Little Lucas has learnt alot more how to rummage drawers and turn the whole house upside down :D

Wee Family would like to wish everyone a Happy New Year and may 2010 be a fruitful, wonderful & plentiful year for all!!!

Below are some pictures we took over the Christmas Holidays.. enjoy :)

Thursday, December 17, 2009

A typical Sunday

6.30 am - Mummy wakes up. After washing up, change Little Lucas's diaper and give him his first feed of day.

7.00am - Washing of cups, milk bottles & boiling of water. Start to prepare ingredients to cook Little Lucas's porrige as well as for adult's lunch.

8.00am - Baking Time.. (if Mummy has something in mind to bake)

9.30am - Little Lucas wakes up (subject to change without any prior notice)

9.45am - Prepare Little Lucas for his shower follow up a mini breakfast consisting of biscuits or bread. Mummy will take breakfast with Little Lucas while watching her favourite Doraemon cartoon or whatever children's programme that is showing on TV.

10.30am - Little Lucas 2nd feed of the day

10.45am - Mummy will bring Little Lucas into the room to wake Daddy up

11.00am - Finally Daddy is awake.. he will now take care of Lucas while Mummy start to cook lunch.

12.00noon - Lunch is ready.... Mummy needs to lay the table and prepare Little Lucas for his lunch as well

12.15pm - Feasting time.... Mummy will feed Little Lucas while having her lunch. Daddy will have his lunch while watching TV

1.00pm - Lunch is done. Mummy will have to wash all the dishes and clean the kitchen. Daddy to help empty the dustbin.

1.30pm - Mummy to shower

1.45 pm - Mummy to pat Little Lucas to sleep while Daddy is getting ready to nap again

1.45pm - Mummy to put laundry into washing machine. If she is tired, she will take a nap now, otherwise she will hook onto the com to improve her gaming skills again..

2.45pm - Laundry is ready to be hang up for drying.

3.00pm - Daddy is awake... watch TV again or hook onto com.

3.30 pm - Little Lucas is awake, waiting for Mummy to give him his milk feed

3.45 pm - Mummy to play together with Lucas before his next shower. Daddy is watching TV or surfing net

5.00pm - Mummy to give Little Lucas his shower, follow by Daddy and Mummy.

5.30pm - Mummy to start packing diaper bag and getting ready for the family outing (is shopping actually)

6.00pm - Out of the house.. FINALLY!!

9.45pm - We are back.... Mummy to unpack the diaper bag and Daddy to keep all stuff brought during shopping (applicable only to stuff that he knows where to keep, the rest will be left lying on the floor waiting for Mummy)

10.00 pm - Mummy to wash up for Little Lucas, give him his last feed of the day, while Daddy takes his shower

10.15pm - Mummy to shower

10.30pm - Mummy to pat Little Lucas to sleep

11.00pm - Mummy & Daddy can finally retire for the day


Mummy: Can I be Daddy instead?????

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

I Love Facebook Games

I own 3 farms, 2 restaurants & 1 fish tank in Facebook... which is why I am so busy everyday.. :D



My farm in Farmtown



My farm in Farmville



My farm in Country Story



My restaurant in Restaurant City



Inside my restaurant



My cafe in Cafe World



My fish tank in Fishville